Your Husband Lost His Sex Drive – Ways to Reignite the Intimacy in Your Marriage

Posted: 23/11/2009 |Comments: 0 | Views: 1,099 |

If your husband has lost his sex drive it can change the entire dynamic of the relationship. A couple that was once very close physically can feel themselves drifting farther and farther apart if the intimacy has become non-existent. Unfortunately, many couples look towards divorce when their marriage starts to head down this road, but if you still deeply love your husband, this may not be an option you want to consider. There are methods that any woman can follow that will help her rediscover the intimacy in her relationship and make her husband crave to be physically close to her again.

One common mistake that many married women make is they blame their changing body on their husband’s disinterest in sex. If your husband lost his sex drive it’s not likely connected to the fact that you’ve gained a few pounds since the wedding. Most men also find the scale climbing up once they’ve settled into married life and by then, they feel so connected to their wives emotionally that a slight change in their appearance doesn’t change their level of desire. There is another underlying cause behind why your husband isn’t interested in intimacy anymore and it can actually be anything from an ongoing conflict between you two to work related stress. Take some time to consider what might be bothering your husband. It’s a great idea to talk to him about it, but don’t approach the subject from the angle of how his struggle is affecting your sex life. Be understanding and supportive and do what you can to help him iron out his difficulties.

Many men are similar to women in that they need and want to feel an emotional connection to their wife in order to fully enjoy intimacy. When children enter a marriage it can completely alter the dynamic between the couple. They have less time for one another and the time they do have together is usually spent buying groceries or things for the baby or discussing things like family finances or scheduling. It’s very important that you don’t lose focus of the romantic aspect of your relationship. You need to make time to be together. Save a couple of evenings a month for date nights. Arrange for child care and then just do something that you both enjoy whether it’s going to a movie or out for a nice dinner. You need to enjoy one another’s company again away from the pressures and demands of your everyday life. Once you two feel connected again on this level, it’s just one more step to being close physically.

Rate this Article
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
  • 0 vote(s)
    Feedback
    Print
    Re-Publish
    Article Source: http://www.absexuality.com/sexuality-articles/your-husband-lost-his-sex-drive-ways-to-reignite-the-intimacy-in-your-marriage-1493742.html

    Discuss this Article

    There are two main types of sex drive. First is one has an outward energy, an aggressive, testosterone-dominant, physical libido to find a sexual mate. The second type is the receptive, oestrogen-dominant, psychological libido has a passive willingness to receive the sexual invitation of a seducing mate.

    By: Sky Fruitl Sexualityl 18/10/2007 lViews: 175
    Calle Zorro

    Four things a man can do to increase his wife's desire for intimacy and sex...

    By: Calle Zorrol Sexualityl 11/11/2009 lViews: 796

    From eating artichokes to taking Gingko Biloba supplements, consuming agents that are known to increase sexual desire has been popular for centuries. These libido-increasing foods and herbs are known as natural aphrodisiacs.

    By: Brian Welschl Sexualityl 04/03/2009 lViews: 2,983
    Paul Rodgers

    Never has it really been so simple and easy to improve your intimate fun, improve your feminine desire and relieve dryness frequently tied in with growing older. you will be thrilled to discover that there is even something better than a female libido enhancer pill that is right at your fingertips.

    By: Paul Rodgersl Sexualityl 28/08/2010 lViews: 105

    Are you in a marriage where you rarely have sex with your husband, and at list one of you in not pleased with this situation. Well you're not alone in this at all...it happened in my marriage, and many (if not most, for some periods) other women's marriages too. But it doesn't have to mean the end of good sex in the marriage, the end of marriage or strife, that is of course if you do things right…

    By: Annie Livemanl Sexualityl 17/07/2010 lViews: 199
    Calle Zorro

    This article contains a message that every married man should consider carefully if he cares at all about having an intimate and enduring marriage...

    By: Calle Zorrol Sexualityl 24/03/2009 lViews: 540 lComments: 1
    John Dugan

    A red, sore, itchy penis could be a sign of balanitis. Here's what to do about this uncomfortable and embarrassing condition.

    By: John Duganl Sexualityl 24/11/2014
    John Dugan

    When a man is preparing to travel, he doesn't want to bother with an itchy penis. The occasional scratch is fine, but no man wants to be constantly tugging at the groin while vacationing.

    By: John Duganl Sexualityl 24/11/2014
    John Dugan

    Men with diabetes are particularly susceptible to certain penis health problems. Learn about three of them here.

    By: John Duganl Sexualityl 23/11/2014
    John Dugan

    Can what's playing in the background influence whether one has better sex? Mood music can facilitate a seduction or help increase the intensity of a sexual encounter.

    By: John Duganl Sexualityl 22/11/2014
    John Dugan

    Some causes of an itchy penis are contagious. This article looks at two causes of penile itch that spread easily.

    By: John Duganl Sexualityl 22/11/2014
    John Dugan

    Is a red penis cause for a man to worry? Sometimes the redness can be normal, but at other times it may require a man's care and attention.

    By: John Duganl Sexualityl 21/11/2014
    John Dugan

    A man's personal care products can negatively impact his penis health. Find out more about the common, everyday items that can cause a sore penis.

    By: John Duganl Sexualityl 21/11/2014
    John Dugan

    One man shares his story of developing a red penis after getting a lap dance. What could have caused it? What did he do to fix it? Find out.

    By: John Duganl Sexualityl 20/11/2014
    Gillian Reynolds

    He stopped calling after sex. At first you just assumed he was busy but it's been days or weeks now and it's obvious that his silence is directly related to the fact that you slept with him. You're confused about what happened though.

    By: Gillian Reynoldsl Sexualityl 18/01/2011 lViews: 499
    Gillian Reynolds

    Your husband has lost interest in sex. You feel rejected and so alone. It's not something that you've been able to talk to him about for several reasons. Perhaps you feel scared that he'll tell you it's because he's met someone else or maybe you're more concerned that he's fallen out of love with you.

    By: Gillian Reynoldsl Sexualityl 05/12/2010 lViews: 206
    Gillian Reynolds

    Are you living in a sexless marriage? You're likely feeling a whole host of emotions associated with it. Many couples struggle through this same issue.

    By: Gillian Reynoldsl Sexualityl 25/11/2010 lViews: 81
    Gillian Reynolds

    You had sex with him on the first date. I'm going to go out on a limb here and guess that you regret that decision. It likely wasn't even so much as a decision as a compulsion.

    By: Gillian Reynoldsl Sexualityl 23/08/2010 lViews: 140
    Gillian Reynolds

    Your husband doesn't want to have sex. Maybe he's come right out and bluntly told you or perhaps he's shown more compassion and simply comes up with excuse after excuse for why he doesn't want to be intimate with you. Regardless, all the same feelings are still there.

    By: Gillian Reynoldsl Sexualityl 19/08/2010 lViews: 92
    Gillian Reynolds

    He doesn't call after sex. You're left feeling used and confused. Although you're going to be tempted to call him up yourself and demand to know why he didn't call, don't.

    By: Gillian Reynoldsl Sexualityl 12/08/2010 lViews: 599
    Gillian Reynolds

    You recognize the power of seduction, don't you? You've always envisioned what it would be like to make your man wild with desire for you. The problem is that you're a little shy and a little hesitant when it comes to all matters of intimacy.

    By: Gillian Reynoldsl Sexualityl 12/08/2010 lViews: 140
    Gillian Reynolds

    If your marriage lacks intimacy it can impact every other part of the relationship you share with your spouse. Many couples who face this problem never address it head on and the result is disastrous. You and your spouse can get back on the right track so that your marriage is as fulfilling as it possibly can be for both of you.

    By: Gillian Reynoldsl Sexualityl 09/08/2010 lViews: 252
    Author Box
    Articles Categories
    Quantcast