Women Only: How to Give Yourself an Orgasm

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It's a sad fact that the majority of women don't know how to give themselves an orgasms. Not only is reaching orgasm by themselves difficult, but not being able to climax during intercourse is even more frustrating. The reason why a lot of women find that the female orgasm is quite elusive is because of some of the most common mistakes that they make. Take a look at the top four mistakes that you can make as a woman if you want to know how to give yourself an orgasm.

Mistake #1: Not Familiarizing Yourself With Your Erogenous Parts

If you want to have an amazing sex life, then you need to know exactly what it is that you want in bed. And this usually does not happen if a woman does not familiarize herself with how her erogenous zones and female parts work.

Let's take the clitoris as an example. Basically, most women can achieve an orgasm through clitoral stimulation. However, direct stimulation of the clitoris when you are not fully aroused yet will cause it to be extra sensitive and touching it directly may even hurt.
This is where masturbation proves to be useful. When you use your own fingers or a sex toy to stimulate your vaginal area, particularly the clitoris, you will get to know which stroke, pace and rhythm it is that you like.

When you tangle the sheets with your significant other, you will be able to communicate with him what you want and be able to reach the big 'O' much faster.

Mistake #2: Not Trying To Find Your Own G-Spot  

Some women feel intimidated by the fact that their G-spot is buried about three inches up their vagina. If you want to know how to give yourself an orgasm, then experimenting and finding your own G-spot is the best way to go about doing it.

There are sex toys which particularly target the G-spot which you can use while learning how to give yourself an orgasm. Otherwise, you can use your own fingers or the stroke of your lover to achieve a mind blowing G-spot orgasm.

Mistake #3: Feeling The Guilt While Playing With Your Body   

This is probably one of the biggest mistakes that you will ever make. If you allow yourself to think that masturbation or learning how to give yourself an orgasm is something that you should feel guilty about, then you will definitely not be able to orgasm.

Mistake #4: Not Using Your Fantasies To Give Yourself An Orgasm   

It's perfectly fine to allow your fantasy free reign, especially if you are trying to give yourself an orgasm. Don't stifle this instinct, unless you are doing it with your significant other - in which case a sexual fantasy not involving doing it with a celebrity is a must.

Remember that masturbation is a perfectly natural act which feels extremely good - so learn how to give yourself an orgasm by avoiding these three mistakes that most women make.

Now that you know about the top four mistakes that women make when pleasuring themselves, visit our site to learn exactly how you can give yourself an orgasm.

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