What are the Best Sex Positions for Orgasm?

Posted: 07/01/2009 |Comments: 1 | Views: 35,271 |

If you take a look online or at the Kama Sutra you would be forgiven for thinking that there are so many amazing sex positions that you would be hard pressed to find a best sex position. If you are looking to bring your partner to orgasm however, many of those positions may be enjoyable but not optimum for the task.



There are a couple of good sex positions that could be considered the best but only for each gender as men and women are quite different. As an aside did you know that by varying the position by just an inch can change the intensity and feeling too? This means that you should take your time and experiment with angles a bit with these positions to find what is best for you and your partner.


The Best Sex Position For Women To Climax


For women the 'reverse missionary' can be the best and easiest way to an orgasm. It is like the traditional missionary position except the woman is on the top rather than the man. When the woman is on top she can control the friction on her g-spot or her clitoris and has control of speed and power as well.


Usually it is best for the women to orgasm first so once the woman is ready and aroused enough this position will allow her to climax and then you can shift to a position where the man can have control. Where you place your legs in this position can change things a great deal depending on many physical factors, try changing your legs by spreading them or bringing them together or alternating this to find what feels best.


The Best Position For Men To Orgasm


While the missionary position is also good for guys the 'doggy style' position is often considered better because like the missionary position it gives you good control but it has a few other benefits. Intercourse from behind while having no face to face contact (easily fixed with a mirror though) is a great position for hitting her g-spot. It also allows you full access to her sensual areas, the neck, back, bottom and reaching around you can also fondle the breasts and clitoris.


The other key aspect is deep penetration which feels great for the man and for the women, though if you are very well endowed you may need to be careful not to hit her cervix while doing this which can be very painful.


The Mistake Couples Make Using Lovemaking Positions


While each position mentioned has benefits and negatives and so will every other position one problem remains that couples often fall into when trying to spice of their sex life; what happens when you try every hundred different type of position you can find in sex books and online?


In the end they are all quite similar and you will incorporate the best ones for both of you into your love making and they will become standard ... and often boring as it always feels the same. This is why couples need to not only explore physical positions when making love but also cultivate a spirit of adventure and inventiveness into their sex lives. This is nothing dirty of sleazy it just means a few changes in the way you approach things. For instance:





  • Make love in a new and different place

  • Make love in an old place you used too but have not done fro a while

  • Add some food into your bedroom capers

  • Break the routine with something exciting and different!




If you want to know more on how to spice up your sex life click here for guides, links and information that add passion back to the bedroom in any relationship!

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