The 6 Questions That Get Women Sexually Aroused

Posted: 20/07/2009 |Comments: 0 | Views: 15,173 |

When you want to become effective at getting a woman sexually turned on, you must do the "preparation" before you do anything.

Over the years, I (CR James) have listened to hundreds and hundreds of emails from guys explaining how they get their women in the mood and I have to say, 95% of these guys are just flat-out horrible at it.

It's not really their fault, because no one has ever taught them.

For the most part, men tend to "ask for sex".

In other words, they spend zero time on actually building sexual desire.

In their minds, having sex is an idea, so it's framed as a "suggestion" to her.

Out of nowhere, they'll say something like: "Hey sweetie. Do you want to have sex?"
In reality, the guys who are really "effective at getting their women in the mood", understand that her desire to have sex is a result of a strategic sequence of emotional processes along with having patience.

And when you go this route (instead of the "highly ineffective suggestion approach"), you'll metaphorically equate it to planting seeds. Which means, you're not going to scream at the soil because the beautiful flower hasn't shown itself 2 minutes after the seed has entered the ground.

You're not going to have an argument with the soil because you REALLY REALLY want to look at flower.

So the question isn't: "What can I do right now that would instantly get her horny?"

The questions are:

When was the last time you did 1 thing that increased the connection?
When was the last time you did 1 thing to make yourself more sexually desirable?
When was the last time you did 1 thing to show her that you understand exactly what she is going through?
When was the last time you did 1 thing to make her feel extremely sexy?
When was the last time you did 1 thing to remind her of a time when she had the sexual time of her life?
When was the last time you try to avoid something that was a sexual turn-off.


Most guys tend to make the same seduction mistakes over and over again.

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