Orgasm Denial - Should It Ever Be Permanent?

Posted: 19/03/2011 |Comments: 0 | Views: 1,491 |

Orgasm denial is a hot topic for many men, with their hottest fantasy being denied orgasm by their wives for long periods of time... with the only question being... how long? And then the big question all men and women come up against when they embrace the male chastity lifestyle... should

Orgasm denial

Ever be permanent?

Opinions on this are divided, to be sure, and I admit to have changed my own thinking on this over time. Originally I believed it was in fact counterproductive in many cases because it actually takes away the woman's control. Part of the thrill for some men is not knowing and of course if you know orgasm denial is permanent... then you do know.

You know you are not coming now and never are going to. That ache you feel, that pressure, that need to come... is never, ever going to go away.

But over time I came to realise the deeper pleasure for many men is the feeling of constantly being "half way to orgasm" plus the exquisite "99% of the way to orgasm" they experience when they are subject to strict Tease and Denial sessions.

And now my preference -- and recommendation -- is for all couples thinking about male chastity and orgasm denial to at least consider the possibility of strict and permanent orgasm denial for the man.

Obviously it requires his cooperation and consent, and this will usually come about only after he's experienced the feelings, sensations and benefits for himself. It really is a conclusion neither of you will really be able to argue yourselves into logically because it is all about the experience. You'll discover there are no good reasons for a man being allowed to orgasm, and lots of reasons for him NOT being allowed to, ever.

Here are three reasons it can work for both of you:

  1. As I mentioned previously, your man is going to be half-way to orgasm all the time. Men love this feeling of being in a continual state or arousal and it heightens both their physical and emotional sensitivity (especially to YOU, their keyholder).
  2. The exquisite feeling a man gets during Tease and Denial can be even more profound and pleasurable than actual orgasm -- simply because for men, their orgasm is over in just a few seconds; with Tease and Denial and ultra long-term and even permanent orgasm denial, this 'peak feeling' can be experienced almost constantly for hours at a time (from which it follows you cannot just 'lock him and leave him'. That's celibacy and not what he wants.
  3. If you're worrying you might miss the sensation of penetrative sex and having him make love to you properly, a good quality strapon is... good enough. Meaning, it is possible to make your man absolutely chaste and orgasm denial permanent without missing out on any of your own pleasure.

I don't think male chastity will ever become 'the norm' or even particularly 'main stream', but I do believe with the right attitude and some perseverance, it can become far more widespread than it is now; and following on from that, I firmly believe many marriages and relationships would benefit from permanent orgasm denial for the man.

The hardest part is getting from here to there because there's no doubt it is a big and challenging undertaking -- but the rewards of permanent orgasm denial are more than worth it for both of you.

And if you want to uncover the easy way to get your wife to agree to male chastity...

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