Oral Sex Secrets: How to Make Your Wife Your Love Slave

Posted: 26/06/2009 |Comments: 4 | Views: 45,844 |

Nearly every guy believes he is a master at oral sex...that's OK. I do too. The difference is, I have dozens (not hundreds, I mean there are diseases out there, fellas!) of testimonials from women whose future sex lives I have personally ruined. I was the best they ever had or will ever have (unless their new guy is reading this!) Let me begin with the foundation for mind-blowing oral sex.

You have to enjoy it.  

You see, if you are merely doing a "task" to get her off, you will be an average lover. Simply applying the techniques below is not enough to make her your sex slave for life. Believe me, if you do put your heart, soul (and yes, your tongue) into this, you have a chance of giving her multiple orgasms and become the Chinese lick master of the world.   If you are one of those people who think that it is just disgusting and try to refrain from it, take a step back and relax. If your woman smells funny, try it again immediately after a shower. Keep in mind, if a woman climaxes well via oral sex, she may be unable to have an orgasm during routine sex.  

Some women cannot climax without receiving oral sex. If that is a challenge for you, get over it. If your lady loves oral sex, give it to her and if she does not, then discover the reason behind it.

1.      She might have had a bad experience.

2.      She might feel uncomfortable about her body.

3.      If she doesn't want it, then don't force it on her.

4.      Some men think that giving oral sex is disgusting, but love to receive it. That's not fair you idiot, if you like your partner to perform oral sex, then you need to do the same for her, ENTHUSIASTICALLY.  

Secrets of Mind Blowing Oral Sex
- Begin teasing her before going down on her. Run your fingers on her thighs and kiss her on her belly button and belly and then from there just dig into her vagina. Brush your tongue against the labia, and create more lubrication before the show begins.

- Enjoy and have fun and let her know that you are having a great time, as women love it when they feel that their men are just loving their bodies. I always moan a bit and when I am coming up for air, I give her compliments about her pussy.

- Don't rush yourself. Try to spend plenty of time in pussy-ville. Enjoy everything and explore her vagina like an adventurer. Hurrying to achieve a climax is a sure way to avoid one. Many women who are rushed or too anxious to climax don't do so.

- Tickle her clitoris with your tongue. Start licking it slowly and then start doing it in a fast rhythm. Because some women love to get their clitoris stimulated and even achieve orgasm while their clitoris is being stimulated. Stop treating it like a fence to be painted. Think about Chinese characters and calligraphy. Paint the alphabet slowly and creatively.

- Massage her outer lips. While you are sucking and licking her clitoris, massage her lips. Pull them away and bring them close together. This will drive her totally insane.

- Use your fingers. Use your fingers to penetrate her while you are licking her clitoris. She will love this. Chances are before long you will feel her tremble with pure delight. Also, you can rub her clitoris while you eat her. You can also try using a toy while you are eating. The three of you will all benefit.

- Put a pillow under her ass. This will give you more room for your dinning pleasure. You will be able to focus more on how to please her if you have more access to her. This Kama Sutra position will also allow deeper penetration of your fingers or toy.

- Massage her nipples. Most women love it when they nipples are rubbed during sex acts. I had one girlfriend who insisted on biting her nipples (impossible during cunnilingus, but you get the idea). Keep in mind that variety is the key. - Stop midway through intercourse to eat her. This will catch her by surprise. Get her all worked up by pounding the hell out of her. Just when she least expects it, jump down and start licking her beaver. She will go crazy when you do this.

- Eat her with mints in your mouth. This will set her wild. Put a menthol cough drop in your mouth and go down there. After you are done, share it and have her go down on you while she sucks on the cough drop.

- Two Step. Put your mouth on her clitoris and suck while your tongue is in motion. This two-step move of sucking and licking should be reserved for the pre-orgasm. It works nearly all the time.

- Hum a little tune. While you are sucking, hum a little. Some women really like this. Vary the intensity, volume, and rhythm of your humming.

Encourage a Brazilian wax. Nothing beats eating a fur-burger EXCEPT a fully waxed and clean pussy. Not only will you appreciate avoiding nature's dental floss. But most women report better and more satisfying sex when their pussy's are waxed or at least shaved.  

Do Not...

- Smell. Don't tell her that she stinks or ask if she showered today. Take a shower together and start the action while you are in the shower.

- Don't insist on performing oral sex. If she isn't feeling so fresh, she is dropping you a hint. If you insist too much, you might get a face full of blood if she is on her period.

- No bartering. Don't tell her that since you went down on her, she should go down on you. - Don't tell her what your ex liked. She isn't your ex, so don't compare her to her.   Keep in mind that the foundation for good oral sex is enthusiasm, communication and patience. I have other articles on multiple orgasm techniques, creating better sex no matter how long you've been together or married, and how to make your wife hot.

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    Champ 27/09/2010
    This shit is lame I thought I was going to learn something new. The author must be in his teens.
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    Sophia 04/03/2010
    My Husband gives me amazing oral! I can't even come close to describing the feeling!!

    Alot of the time we will just be making out, or touching and he will find his way to my pussy with his fingers, and tickle and play down there for a few minutes!! It is the best feeling ever, Im sure the ladies will agree with me. Anyways sometimes he will look at my pussy and tell me how hot it is, or it looks delicious, or moan when he see's it. Then he usually tells me to sit on his face, which is very hot. (if you dont feel comfortable sitting on his face, then don't)
    other times, he will slide his wet toung down my breast, and lick around the nipples, and come back to my neck, go back down and give my nipples a few bites, and work his way down to my lower stomach and start eating me out. There are different ways in apporaching oral. Other times, he does it in total randomness.... EG: I walk into the room, and take my jeans off and he sees me in my lace thong, or a thong... and tell me to come to him, and he will just start eating, thats always the hottest because your not expecting it.

    Another trick that isn't for everybody, but it turnes the two of us on is, he will give me oral, and then make out with me. Some people might not like the idea of being eaten out and then having his toung touch yours, but it is completley up to you and your partner! We personally like it because we find it very passionate. Also for me personally having my man eat me out, and then give some of it back to me in a kiss lets me know that he will be very turned on! What guy wouldn't be.

    Also it never hurts to do 69's... another fun thing to do ladies is, while he is eating you out, give your nipples a lick if you can, that always turnes my husband on... or finger yourself. Remember it is completley up to you and your partner.
    Have fun with it, try new things, explore eachother as well as your self!!!
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    lee gordon 09/02/2010
    big dick dont like to brag . id like to know to to control my cock because i cant last very long while having sex i seem to stink it in and before i know it ive already shot my load give me advice please and is any1 looking for a quick shagg because im randy for love!!!5400
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    gehadwardeh 14/11/2009
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