Male Chastity Advice For Newbies

Posted: 09/10/2009 |Comments: 0 | Views: 5,699 |

My name is Mistress Sara, and I am a professional dominatrix who also works with married couples to enhance their relationship. Whenever I interact with a couple looking to bring intimacy back into their marriage or make their sex life better, I always recommend male chastity.

Quite frankly, I believe all husbands should be locked up and their wives should help enforce their good behavior. I think it leads to a much more loving and close long-term relationship. Giving up control of his sexuality to his wife is part of the bonding process for the couple.

Left to their own devices, most husbands will become lazy, waste their libido masturbating, be prone to cheating and act selfishly in bed. When placed under lock and key they will do anything they can to please their wives, become better lovers, have no ability to cheat and break themselves of their silly little masturbation habit.

But, I do recognize that the male chastity lifestyle is a process, not a single action. You can't simply lock your husband up and expect things to change right away. It took him years to develop into the man he is today; it will also take time for him to evolve into the wonderful husband you know he can be.

Since I understand that most couples can't afford to hire a professional dominatrix like myself to guide them at the start, I've decided to use this space to give some basic male chastity advice for newbies to the lifestyle.

  • Understand that it will take time to adjust to male chastity. This is why it is often referred to as male chastity “training.” At first you'll probably only want to lock him up for a couple days at a time so he can get used to it. Then, you can start locking him up for longer periods of time. Of course, eventually the goal is for him to have sexual release only nine to 12 times a year; but you'll have to build up to that.

  • Hygiene is very important. You will have to help him keep his little naughty bits clean, or he will be prone to chafing and infection. At first you may also want to put moisturizer into the device while his skin adapts to its caged destiny.

  • You need to let him know he is loved and appreciated. Otherwise, it will just seem like you are mean and uncaring. Kiss him randomly. Praise him for his devotion to you. Walk around in sexy outfits. Keep him turned on, even when he can't come out and play.

  • Don't let him whine about being locked up. Otherwise he'll drive you insane with his bitching. The best way to do this is to wait until the first time he complains, and then explain he's now earned himself another three days in male chastity. He'll learn his lesson soon enough.

  • Just because he's having fewer orgasms doesn't mean your sex life is over. Make him use his mouth, fingers and sex toys to bring you to orgasm on a regular basis. Let him know this is one of the ways that he can earn his freedom.

  • Don't go back on your word. If you tell him he's going to be locked up for three days, make him be locked up for three days. Don't let yourself “feel sorry” for him. It's for the good of your relationship!

  • If he needs to be punished, let the punishment fit the crime. Don't be too severe just because you now have the power in the relationship.

  • Communicate regularly how each of you feels about this new element in your relationship. Both of you should be willing to compromise until you find the right way to incorporate male chastity into your relationship.

There you go! Hopefully, I have addressed some of your most important concerns about the male chastity lifestyle. I strongly urge both you and your partner to embrace male chastity before his immature urges ruin your long-term relationship or marriage.

Rate this Article
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
  • 2 vote(s)
    Feedback
    Print
    Re-Publish
    Article Source: http://www.absexuality.com/sexuality-articles/male-chastity-advice-for-newbies-1318279.html

    Discuss this Article

    Sarah Jameson

    Male chastity is an incredibly exciting, satisfying and deliciously sexy lifestyle... but one that's badly misunderstood - and the situation isn't helped by the masses of over-hyped and patently untrue nonsense out there masquerading as "fact". Now that all changes - because in this article you will discover the real secrets to beginning the male chastity lifetyle, shared by a woman who's been living it 24/7 with her husband for the past 2 1/2 years. At last: real male chastity without the hype.

    By: Sarah Jamesonl Sexualityl 23/07/2010 lViews: 2,313

    In this brief male chastity review, you will see that the lifestyle is become increasingly popular for one simple reason – it works.

    By: Sara L. Collinsl Sexualityl 10/10/2009 lViews: 2,407
    Sarah Jameson

    Male orgasm denial is an exquisitely pleasurable kink many couples choose to rekindle the flames of passion in their lives. But it's not a panacea and many women are put off by the thought their man will become feminised. And this is not always or even often true. In this short article you will discover the real secrets of masculinity and male chastity.

    By: Sarah Jamesonl Sexualityl 19/07/2010 lViews: 1,311

    It may surprise you to know that male chastity is not always the wife's idea. Sometimes it's the man who desires to lose his freedom and turn his wife into his own male chastity mistress. This is perfectly normal and a sign that he is deeply committed to the relationship.

    By: Sara L. Collinsl Sexualityl 08/10/2009 lViews: 6,462
    John Dugan

    A red, sore, itchy penis could be a sign of balanitis. Here's what to do about this uncomfortable and embarrassing condition.

    By: John Duganl Sexualityl 24/11/2014 lViews: 26
    John Dugan

    When a man is preparing to travel, he doesn't want to bother with an itchy penis. The occasional scratch is fine, but no man wants to be constantly tugging at the groin while vacationing.

    By: John Duganl Sexualityl 24/11/2014 lViews: 12
    John Dugan

    Men with diabetes are particularly susceptible to certain penis health problems. Learn about three of them here.

    By: John Duganl Sexualityl 23/11/2014 lViews: 37
    John Dugan

    Can what's playing in the background influence whether one has better sex? Mood music can facilitate a seduction or help increase the intensity of a sexual encounter.

    By: John Duganl Sexualityl 22/11/2014 lViews: 14
    John Dugan

    Some causes of an itchy penis are contagious. This article looks at two causes of penile itch that spread easily.

    By: John Duganl Sexualityl 22/11/2014
    John Dugan

    Is a red penis cause for a man to worry? Sometimes the redness can be normal, but at other times it may require a man's care and attention.

    By: John Duganl Sexualityl 21/11/2014
    John Dugan

    A man's personal care products can negatively impact his penis health. Find out more about the common, everyday items that can cause a sore penis.

    By: John Duganl Sexualityl 21/11/2014 lViews: 12
    John Dugan

    One man shares his story of developing a red penis after getting a lap dance. What could have caused it? What did he do to fix it? Find out.

    By: John Duganl Sexualityl 20/11/2014 lViews: 17

    Sara L. Collins is Mistress Sara and she invites you to visit http://www.MaleChastityLifestyle.com and share her erotic experiences as a professional dominatrix. Download the complete male chastity guide - Beautiful Enslavement and learn more about this exciting lifestyle and how long term, enforced male chastity can revitalize your relationship.

    By: Sara L. Collinsl Sexualityl 25/10/2009 lViews: 5,809

    In this brief male chastity review, you will see that the lifestyle is become increasingly popular for one simple reason – it works.

    By: Sara L. Collinsl Sexualityl 10/10/2009 lViews: 2,407

    It may surprise you to know that male chastity is not always the wife's idea. Sometimes it's the man who desires to lose his freedom and turn his wife into his own male chastity mistress. This is perfectly normal and a sign that he is deeply committed to the relationship.

    By: Sara L. Collinsl Sexualityl 08/10/2009 lViews: 6,462

    One would think that the woman would get most of the benefits of male chastity - after all, she's not the one constantly under lock and key. But, honestly, men are the ones who get the greatest benefits out of the male chastity lifestyle.

    By: Sara L. Collinsl Sexualityl 07/10/2009 lViews: 3,231

    Many people find the concept of male chastity fun and exciting. This is particularly true if the male partner is somewhat submissive or the female partner is somewhat dominant. But, it's not only for couples in those kinds of relationships. In fact, it can benefit almost any heterosexual relationship.

    By: Sara L. Collinsl Sexualityl 06/10/2009 lViews: 5,028

    When people think of the concept of chastity they usually think of medieval times, when maidens were locked up to protect their virginities until marriage. But in reality, chastity is a very modern concept – only these days it's the man who is usually locked up, while the female partner retains her sexual freedom.

    By: Sara L. Collinsl Sexualityl 04/10/2009 lViews: 1,865

    Over the years I've helped dozens of couples incorporate male chastity and male chastity belt devices into their marriage. I've done so because this lifestyle has proven to be the right choice for most couples – particularly if they are having problems in their relationship.

    By: Sara L. Collinsl Sexualityl 02/10/2009 lViews: 11,476

    So, you have stumbled upon an unusual website with a chastity page full of erotic tales about males wearing male chastity belts and submitting to the wishes of their dominant mistresses. You are wondering - what it’s all about? Can these stories be real?

    By: Sara L. Collinsl Sexualityl 02/10/2009 lViews: 6,272
    Author Box
    Articles Categories
    Quantcast