Male Chastity Advice For Newbies

Posted: 09/10/2009 |Comments: 0 | Views: 5,925 |

My name is Mistress Sara, and I am a professional dominatrix who also works with married couples to enhance their relationship. Whenever I interact with a couple looking to bring intimacy back into their marriage or make their sex life better, I always recommend male chastity.

Quite frankly, I believe all husbands should be locked up and their wives should help enforce their good behavior. I think it leads to a much more loving and close long-term relationship. Giving up control of his sexuality to his wife is part of the bonding process for the couple.

Left to their own devices, most husbands will become lazy, waste their libido masturbating, be prone to cheating and act selfishly in bed. When placed under lock and key they will do anything they can to please their wives, become better lovers, have no ability to cheat and break themselves of their silly little masturbation habit.

But, I do recognize that the male chastity lifestyle is a process, not a single action. You can't simply lock your husband up and expect things to change right away. It took him years to develop into the man he is today; it will also take time for him to evolve into the wonderful husband you know he can be.

Since I understand that most couples can't afford to hire a professional dominatrix like myself to guide them at the start, I've decided to use this space to give some basic male chastity advice for newbies to the lifestyle.

  • Understand that it will take time to adjust to male chastity. This is why it is often referred to as male chastity “training.” At first you'll probably only want to lock him up for a couple days at a time so he can get used to it. Then, you can start locking him up for longer periods of time. Of course, eventually the goal is for him to have sexual release only nine to 12 times a year; but you'll have to build up to that.

  • Hygiene is very important. You will have to help him keep his little naughty bits clean, or he will be prone to chafing and infection. At first you may also want to put moisturizer into the device while his skin adapts to its caged destiny.

  • You need to let him know he is loved and appreciated. Otherwise, it will just seem like you are mean and uncaring. Kiss him randomly. Praise him for his devotion to you. Walk around in sexy outfits. Keep him turned on, even when he can't come out and play.

  • Don't let him whine about being locked up. Otherwise he'll drive you insane with his bitching. The best way to do this is to wait until the first time he complains, and then explain he's now earned himself another three days in male chastity. He'll learn his lesson soon enough.

  • Just because he's having fewer orgasms doesn't mean your sex life is over. Make him use his mouth, fingers and sex toys to bring you to orgasm on a regular basis. Let him know this is one of the ways that he can earn his freedom.

  • Don't go back on your word. If you tell him he's going to be locked up for three days, make him be locked up for three days. Don't let yourself “feel sorry” for him. It's for the good of your relationship!

  • If he needs to be punished, let the punishment fit the crime. Don't be too severe just because you now have the power in the relationship.

  • Communicate regularly how each of you feels about this new element in your relationship. Both of you should be willing to compromise until you find the right way to incorporate male chastity into your relationship.

There you go! Hopefully, I have addressed some of your most important concerns about the male chastity lifestyle. I strongly urge both you and your partner to embrace male chastity before his immature urges ruin your long-term relationship or marriage.

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