Living With a Sexless Wife?

Posted: 22/09/2008 |Comments: 0 | Views: 5,587 |

If you are living with a sexless wife, that is a spouse who refuses to have sex or at least is very reluctant you will know all about frustration, anger, depression and humiliation as that which is suppose to be your lover does not engage in the supreme act of love that is often crudely describes as sex but is know more accurately when applied to a married couple as "making love".

This is a terrible situation to be in and even the most faithful husband will be tempted to seek intimacy in the arms of another women even though this provides cold comfort to men because it may be exciting but it is not the closeness you crave from the women you love!

Not all sexless marriages end with affairs, guilt and messy divorces though. Some marriages manage to get back on their feet and rekindle the passion they had when first married but to do this a husband needs to be very careful and understand the root cause of this lack of sex drive in their sexless wife.
You see marriage problems like a lack of sex do not come from a happy marriage, it is only a symptom of a deeper issue in their emotional state that can sometimes be hard to see because they either cannot articulate it properly or sometimes they do not understand it themselves. Issues such as depression, anxiety, stress and a whole range of other psychological issues can manifest themselves by inhibiting your wife's desire to make love. To counter this you can work through these relationship issues but it can be a dangerous path to tread when you do not have a roadmap to the female mind!

Your sexless wife will need support, compassion and understanding and you help to uncover the real reasons behind her reluctance to make love but if you truly love her this is the road you must take.

If you need more advice on what to do and more importantly what NOT to do when you try to fix a sexless marriage click below to discover the information you need to men your relationship and recreate a happy marriage of intimacy and love.

http://www.loveiscomplicated.info/sex/sexless-marriages/

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