How to Make Your Wife Orgasm

Posted: 30/09/2009 |Comments: 0 | Views: 11,790 |

How serious are you about helping your wife achieve orgasm? Step one would be to see a doctor and/or a sex therapist. She may be diagnosed with primary anorgasmia, secondary anorgasmia and situational anorgasmia. There are clinical and psychological reasons a woman fails to achieve orgasm. In other words, it might not be your fault, dude!

Learn how to orgasm through intercourse One of the most common complaints of women is failure to reach orgasm during intercourse. Duh! Any man who understands female anatomy knows that run of the mill intercourse is one of the clumsiest ways to stimulate a woman. While coitus does provide an atmosphere that can be highly arousing, emotionally satisfying and erotic, the degree of stimulation to the woman's clitoral area is like hitting an elephant with a flyswatter. For thorough and complete stimulation of a woman, special attention must be made to the clitoris (And the G-spot if you are not a beginner) It is almost ludicrous to think that mere penile-vaginal intercourse is sufficient to bring most women to orgasm.

Many techniques exist to facilitate a woman having an orgasm and having “off the chart” sex! In order to really ring her bell, here are a few techniques that should help you out:

  • The Grind. Increase the pressure from your pelvic bone, exerted onto her clitoral hood. In other words, do a little bit of grinding. Moving up and down or side to side is akin to salsa dancing. During this period of experimentation, communication between the two of you will be extremely important (i.e. "too hard, too soft, perfect, faster, slower, etc.). You will learn exactly what moves excite her, are neutral, give her discomfort or make her want to pee.
  • The Cowgirl. When she is on top, give her full control of motion. Let her “lead” the dance. As you lie on your back, pelvic tilted upward, stomach muscles tightened and back flat against the ground, be lie perfectly still. Take your thumb and place it halfway between your bellybutton and penis. This way as she thrusts forward, her clitoris will rub against your finger. Many women find this extra stimulation pleasurable, especially because her thrusting motion controls the degree of stimulation that she will receive. This is especially good for strong women who like to be in control. Just be sure Zena, the warrior princess leaves her sword by the door.
  • The Assist. With your wife on top, have her remain perfectly still. While she is on top, ask her to tense her inner thigh muscles. Be sure her vagina fully engulfs your penis. In this position, you can easily apply direct manipulation/stimulation to her clitoris with your hand. To increase the stimulation, the woman could SLOWLY rotate her hips, and/or move her vagina up and down along the shaft of his penis. As she increases speed or frequency you’ll learn her pace, rhythm and be able to switch who leads and when. You see, you really can learn to dance! Just be sure you can keep pace with that mambo tune you love.
  • The Team. Have your wife masturbate. She can masturbate from any sexual position. The easiest thing to do in the beginning is to have both of you lie still, and have her masturbate while you are inside of her - without the distraction of movements. Then as her excitement begins to increase, both of you can slowly resume coitus movements. This can work in the doggie, missionary or nearly any position you two come up with. Take your time. Having her “get started without you” isn’t such a bad idea and it’s cheaper than porn.
  • The Scissors. For the more adventurous and willing to be focused on pure female pleasure, have your wife lie on the bottom, legs tightly held together. Lie on top, with your legs spread out. Instead of being directly in line with her, be at a 15 to 20 degree angle to her. Your head should be off to either side and about 1 foot above her head (so that her head reaches your shoulder). This position is designed to enhance female clitoral stimulation. It does so by maximizing the rubbing potential between the male pelvic bone and the female clitoris. You won’t be able to see her face as she climaxes, but you can easily count the patterns on the pillow as she squeals.
  • Toys R Us. The use of a cock ring or vibrator during sex can work wonders. Many standard vibrators are small enough to add some buzz for both of you! Generally speaking, the smaller the appliance the easier it is to give her the extra stimulation she needs without getting in the way of your equipment. Be sure not to get her hooked on this technique ALL the time. Like crack cocaine, the right vibrator can be very addicting and you jeopardize your ego as those things keep going and going and going…

There are MANY more ways to combine manual stimulation with intercourse. My blog provides limitless tools, stories, ideas and methods to create the hot wife you want and the sexual lifestyle you deserve. But the basic gist is this: whatever sexual position the two of you are in, be it doggie-style, side-by-side, missionary, or sitting, take a moment and pause mid-position. Take turns stimulating the clitoral area. Adding conversation both instructional and naughty only adds to both your pleasure. As the two of you acclimate to this additional form of stimulation, and have figured out how to minimize the awkwardness of whatever position the two of you happen to be in at the moment, increase the pelvic thrusting motions. You’ll be well on your way to achieving mind-blowing orgasms and multiple orgasms as well. For more advice, tips, details and strategy on creating an explosive sex life and making your wife hot, visit http://makeyourwifehot.com today!

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