How to Give the Best Hand Job

Posted: 17/07/2008 |Comments: 0 | Views: 152,985 |

All it takes from giving a run-of-the-mill hand job to a powerhouse performance is a little elbow grease, enthusiasm and imagination.

To figure out exactly what is going to blow his mind, a little show-and-tell can go a long way. Most men have solo sex down to a fine art. There's no point in blindly trying to gauge things such as pace and pressure when a brief demonstration from the expert himself would make all the difference. But what if your man's not into public displays of affection?

Here's a step by step guide to your basic up and down hand job, followed by some saucy tricks that'll take you from sexmarm to sex minx in no time.

Step 1

Using one hand, gently encircle the base of his penis with your thumb and forefinger. With a grip that's firm (but not a chokehold), glide your hand from the base of his penis up towards the head.

Step 2

When you get to the top, swivel your hand around so that the entire palm covers the head. Slide your hand back down to the base and repeat.

Advanced Class

Now that you've mastered the basics, you might want to add a few smooth moves to your repertoire. After all, the only way you'll discover what really makes him moan is by trying out the whole lot…

The Head Rub

Step 1

Lubricate the head of his penis and massage it using your whole hand. It feels as if you're trying to turn a slippery door knob. Hold the base for a firm grip.

Step 2

Using just the palm of your hand, gently rub the frenulum and coronal ridge at the back of the head of his penis. A wet hand cupped over the top of a penis can feel a lot like a mouth or a vagina.

The Queen

Step 1

Make a loose fist with one hand and slide it up to the top of his penis. Once you reach the head, finish with a little twist. Think of it as a queen's royal wave. It's the little flourish at the end that counts, because it stimulates the head of the penis.

Step 2

While one hand is giving him the royal treatment, twisting at the top, use the other to start all over again from the bottom. This way he'll enjoy a continuous motion of slide, twist and – hopefully – a little shout at the end.

Tunnel of Love

Step 1

Interlace the fingers of both hands to create a one-sided tunnel, then complete the circle with your thumbs. Place the tunnel over the erect penis and run it up and down.

Step 2

Once you've come to grips with step one, add a little twist by swiveling your hands from side to side to ensure his entire penis gets the benefit of your hand tunnel.

It Takes Two

While one hand is hard at work, try gently running the fingertips of your other hand over different pleasure zones. Try these; the scalp and hairline, the neck and shoulders, the ear lobes and inner ears, the mouth and lips, the small of his back.

Tricky Dicky

A quick guide to his bits

The Perenium: You'll find this small, usually hairless patch of skin between the anus and the testicles. It's close to the prostate gland and has a high concentration of nerve endings, making it incredibly sensitive to the touch.

The Frenulum:  This small triangle of supersensitive skin is what attaches his foreskin to the glans. You'll find it on the underside of his shaft (the ‘stalk' or ‘length' of his penis).

The Coronal Ridge: Run your finger from the tip of his penis down towards the shaft. The ridge that separates the glans and the shaft is the coronal ridge.

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