How to Give a Better Blow Job - Oral Sex Tips

Posted: 19/09/2009 |Comments: 0 | Views: 8,476 |

Before you can actually give your man better blow jobs, you need to get over some more important things that might be blocking you from performing better. I've received many emails from women asking me over and over again the same questions - a new "secret technique" is not going to help much if you have simple confidence issues. You need to get your attituded towards the whole thing fixed first.

So - first, motivate yourself. What do you get out of giving better blow jobs? In my opinion, and from experience, I can say the most women, over 80% don't know how to give great head. Most of these women are not actually lacking "techniques" - they're lacking the right attitude. They are either afraid to practice and fail a few times, or they view the whole thing as a "job". Well yes, it says in the name of it "blow job" - but viewing it as a job will only work against you. Men are emotional creatures too. Believe it or not, we can see if you are enjoying it or not. A bored, "working" face wont really move me that much, or any other guy. Of course - he might orgasm, but that doesn't mean the whole thing itself was anything special.

It has been proven through extensive research that the orgasm occurs in the BRAIN. Sex is more psychological than physical - don't forget that. The best blow jobs I've received so far were from women that knew how to act right, how to create a show and how to manipulate - okay, not munipulate, but feed my senses. They knew the "hot buttons". These women were rare. So I've spent a lot of time teaching women, but I can imagine how many guys out there don't get head at all, just because their wife/girlfriend is too shy to try something new.

As I've said - change your attitude. It's not a job, it's not a chore, it's not you giving him something and "he should be thankful". It has to be pleasurable for you - first and foremost, until it can get truly pleasureable for him. And if you listen to my advice, you'll see major improvements in your relationship - and even if you don't like to give head now, once you get great at it, and once you see the impacts a powerful blow job can have on your marriage/relationship - you'll be happy you invested some time into learning how to give great head.

One more thing - very important, "fake it till you make it" can help, but in case you're making a transition - don't do it "instantly", it will be akward and unnatural, do the shift slowly, until he get's used to your new attitude. Remember girls, it's all about controlling the mind.

Good luck,

Jack

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