How To Get Your Wife To Be A Male Chastity Mistress

Posted: 08/10/2009 |Comments: 0 | Views: 6,534 |

Hi. My name is Mistress Sara, and I am a professional dominatrix. I'm also a firm believer in the concept of enforced male chastity in any long-term committed relationship. My experience with men and couples over the years has taught me that nearly all marriages benefit from male chastity belt training - and most relationships are at risk as long as the male partner is not under lock and key.

What may surprise you is that it's not always the wife's idea to lock up her man. Sometimes it's the man who desires to lose his freedom and turn his wife into his own male chastity mistress.

But, more often than not the man is terrified about explaining his desires to his wife. He worries that she'll think he's weird or kinky. And they know their wives may have never heard of the male chastity lifestyle, or have any idea what it means to be a male chastity mistress.

What's sad is that it's not kinky to want her to be in charge of your sexuality. It's perfectly normal and a sign that you are deeply committed to your relationship. That's why I want to spend some time explaining to you how to get your wife to be your male chastity

  • Explain to her that this is not something kinky. Tell her it's because you love her and think it will bring you closer together.
  • Find some erotic male chastity stories that are somewhat realistic and romantic, and show them to her. Perhaps the two of you can read them together as foreplay.
  • Tell her that you are concerned you are not being the best husband you can be. Explain to her that male chastity is about her feelings and not yours.
  • Show her some of the many articles online that explain that male chastity is romantic and designed to ensure you will stay together forever. Tell her you want this because you value your relationship and want to grow old with her.
  • Be honest and tell her exactly how often you masturbate. Explain to her that you can't help it, and let her know how ashamed you are. Mention that you think about other women when you do it, but you want to only think of her whenever you are sexually stimulated.
  • Let her know that you are sometimes tempted to stray. Reassure her that you don't really want to stray, but confess that you are weak – as all men are. Tell her you are worried that if you are not locked up, you will one day cheat on her and ruin your relationship.
  • If you have a small penis, tell her you want to learn other ways to please her that don't involve penetration. Explain that as long as your penis is free, you are driven to mount her – even though you know she'd be much happier with hours of oral sex.
  • Remind her that once you are locked up, she'll never have to give you a blowjob again. Tell her you've had enough, and it's time for you to be the one on your knees.
  • Explain that once you are locked up you'll be motivated to do more around the house – and ask her what chores she would like you to take over once you are in chastity.
  • Discuss how you'll be forced to sit down to pee while locked up, and how this will make your bathroom floor much cleaner.
  • She should know that once you are locked up she would be in control of the situation. If she only wants you locked up for a few hours at a time, that's fine. If she wants you locked up for months, you'll also agree to that. The point is she has to understand she can make the rules and keep you in chastity any way that feels comfortable for her.
  • Tell her this doesn't mean she has to give up penetration. Talk to her about how it can actually make penetrative sex hotter for both of you.
  • Finally, and this is the most important part, tell her how much you love her and that you desire this because of your deep and abiding adoration of her.

If you have this full discussion with her, she should feel much more comfortable with the idea of being your male chastity mistress. Remember, the key is to be honest and open – and don't forget to let her know how much of your libido you waste masturbating! Soon, you'll have the male chastity mistress you've always wanted.

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