How to convince your wife to become Swinger?

Posted: 06/07/2009 |Comments: 1 | Views: 4,929 |

How to ask your spouse to swing? This is a common issue among modern couples. Slowly and steadily, swinging has become the choice of millions. Young as well as old couples become swinger to relish their desires. Some swingers are single while some have the bisexual preferences.

Usually, it’s men who fantasize about other women. They visualize them in their dreams but reality doesn't let them do so. However, swinging has emerged as a boon for such men. They can swing with the women of their choice, without turning to infidelity.

However, the biggest task is to convince your spouse to become swinger. Few companions will welcome the liberal lifestyle while some will reject such an offer. In such a case, you need to explain about the merits of swinging. You should tell them that swinging won't decrease the love in your heart.
Convincing your spouse is not a cake walk. It isn't like asking them to join you for a lavish dinner or a party at discotheque. Hence, you need to calm your mind before starting the conversation. If you get a positive response, then talk about your desires and pleasures regarding the swinging lifestyle.

You can also get a negative response. It can also end with a heated conversation. So, it is better to terminate the topic as soon as possible. Don't nag your spouse until he/she gets ready for the lifestyle. Conclude the topic and re-initiate after sometime.

Don't forget to collect information about the lifestyle. Talk to a swinger and ask about their experience. This information is necessary to justify your viewpoint. Never focus on your desire and wants. Ask your spouse to express her views. Tell them about the good and bad aspects of the lifestyle.

So, make sure that you paint a beautiful picture of the swinger lifestyle in the mind of your spouse.

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    TFA 01/09/2009
    That is one of the problems with this generation of men. Look, I don't know how you got yourself into that spot, but this is how it is. You have the right to bring up any topic you want for conversation. If she says "Oh, I don't want to talk about that" here is what you do. You pack. If you have something that you want to do in "your bedroom too," and she will not even talk about it, buddy, you are in the wrong relationship. Run! Talking about something and doing it are two completely different things. If she wants a monogamous relationship, she needs to know that you want "monogamous communications skills." Too many men today are plain out afraid of their wives. This guy's advice is nonsense. She doesn't want to do it is one thing; she doesn't want to talk about it is a completely different thing. This is one of those, "Yes, now that you asked, not me by the way, to marry you, and I will give you the rule book later" kind of marriages. Tell her what you want to talk about - done.
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