How to Arouse Your Man The Right Way (And Not a Dvd in Sight!)

Posted: 26/10/2009 |Comments: 0 | Views: 4,121 |

Arousing a man is rarely a difficult task, however there are different ways to go about it. Men are usually so ready and willing to have sex that there isn’t much arousing that needs to be done on the woman’s part, however it’s important to slow things down sometimes and show your man how much you love and appreciate him by treating him to some arousing foreplay.

A great way to arouse your man and show him you love him is to give him an erotic massage. If you man has been working hard all week then there’s likely nothing he’d appreciate more than a nice massage at the end the week. Unless it’s an erotic massage! What could be more arousing to a man than having the woman he loves rub him all over? How about having the woman he loves rub him all over while they’re both naked and uninhibited. A sensual erotic massage is a  great way to get closer as a couple, and unwind together. You’ll both feel the stresses of the week just melting away. You might want to begin by taking a nice hot shower together so you’re relaxed and he’s ready to fully enjoy the gift you’re giving him.

To begin the massage have your man lie on his back with pillows under his head so he can watch you performing the massage. Have him spread his legs apart and bend his knees. Start by gently massaging the legs, abdomen, thighs, chest, and nipples to get the man to relax. It’s also important for the man to breathe deeply to help relax. Next you can pour a small quantity of oil on the shaft of the penis and the testicles. Gently massage the testicles, being careful not to cause pain to this sensitive area, then massage the area above the penis, on the pubic bone. Also massage the perineum, the area between the testicles and the anus, before moving on to the shaft of the penis. Take your time when massaging the shaft of the penis, varying the speed and the pressure. Gently squeeze the base of the penis with your right hand, pull up and slide off, then alternate with your left hand. Take your time doing this as well, alternating between left and right. You can then change the direction by starting the squeeze at the head of the penis, and then sliding down and off. Again, alternate with your left and right hand.

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