Female Stimulation - Foreplay 101

Posted: 07/09/2008 |Comments: 1 | Views: 120,467 |

Unlike men, women need a little bit more time and stimulation to get their sexual juices flowing. This is why it's so important for men to master the fine art of foreplay.

Many friends, acquaintances and clients tell me that in the early stages of their relationships, everything was so new and exciting that foreplay was not a major part of their relationship. That was all well and good but LATER on when the novelty has worn off, they (especially women) found it hard to just jump into lovemaking. At that time, most women start to crave for foreplay first.

Hot Foreplay Tips to Try Tonight

Since the brain is our biggest sexual organ, foreplay plays an important part in female stimulation. In fact, most women claim that even if they were not in the mood to have sex, once their partners start foreplay they eventually get stimulated enough to want to make love. So if you want to sexually stimulate your woman, then you really need to master the fine art of foreplay.

Kiss Her Passionately for an Hour
Do you still kiss each other deeply? And by this I mean not only for that one minute required before you engage in intercourse. If not, make it different tonight. Tonight, kiss her passionately like she's never been kissed before.

Start subtly. For example, just before you settle down and watch TV tonight, dim the lights and open a bottle of wine. At least, you've set the mood lightly for romance. You may even want to check out the TV guide beforehand for a romantic movie or even a light adult-rated one that you guys can watch together.
Now, during a break or while viewing a romantic or hot scene, do the ol' arm over the shoulder routine! Simply reach out and extend your arm over her shoulder but this time, since you guys are a couple, feel free to cup her breast with your hand. Just let it sit there for a few minutes. After a while start fondling her nipples. Do it casually as if you're doing it absent-mindedly.

Now, turn and kiss her lightly. Don't go French kissing right away but ease into it. Try to engage in this for as long as you can. In fact, if SHE starts taking it further, tease her by just continuing to kiss her!

Be sure too that you introduce a NEW element to this kissing session. For instance, have you heard of `tongue bathing'? In this type of kiss you make sure that you kiss her and lick her. So after a minute of kissing, take the next few seconds to just lick her lips, before kissing again.

To heat things up, you can trail kisses up to her ear and then when you get there, talk dirty a bit. Before she has a time to react, go back to kissing. Then go back to her ear again to whisper something dirty again, and so on.

After an hour of this, she'll be so sexually stimulated that I guarantee lovemaking will be a blast!

Make Her Think of Sex All Day
This is personally one of my favorites as it builds sexual tensions so high. Start with foreplay the minute you guys wake up. It's a common fact that most men wake up with an erection. (If you don't, I'm sure it won't be hard for you to get one.) But once your manhood is up and about, be sure she knows!

So how do you do this subtly? You can embrace her and press yourself against her body in bed. Another idea is to take off your undergarments and walk around the room (in an apparently half-asleep state) completely naked so she gets a full view of your body.

Before you leave for work, make sure you make sexual innuendos to her by grabbing her behind, grinding against her, French kissing her and so on.

While apart from each other, you can send her a dirty SMS, a naught email, a picture of a couple making love or even calling her during lunch to talk dirty!

Keep this up until you come home tonight when you're sure that she's so sexually on the edge that you don't even need talk!

Enjoy yourselves!

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