Female Ejaculation Problems - Why Most Women Have Delayed Ejaculation

Posted: 22/05/2009 |Comments: 0 | Views: 5,206 |

This is a simple statement of fact: 

Any woman can ejaculate, with or without orgasm. 

If that’s true, why is it that most women do not ejaculate – in fact, most women don’t even know that they CAN ejaculate? The answer is simple – most women don’t know that they can ejaculate because they have been told that there is no such thing as female ejaculation. Just as women were told for centuries that only “bad girls” enjoyed sex and only “wicked women” reached orgasm, now they are often told that female ejaculation is no more than a “temporary loss of bladder control”. 

Nearly 60 years after Dr. Ernst Grafenberg revealed the existence of the G-spot, there are still “authorities” that deny it exists or distort its role in women’s sexuality. In the same way, many health professionals downplay or deny that women ejaculate during sex. This has led to a situation where many women don’t ejaculate during sex – or if they do, they try very hard to suppress it. These are some of the most common reasons that women have delayed ejaculation or no ejaculation at all. 

Women learn to suppress their natural female ejaculation response.

Women are taught from a young age that women are neat, clean and dry. They are told that their bodily fluids are “dirty” or “disgusting”. As they reach sexual maturity, very little of the information about female sexuality available to them even mentions female-ejaculation. If they naturally respond to sexual stimulation with a release of fluid, many young women believe that there is something abnormal or wrong with them. The truth is that over 40% of women report experiencing female-ejaculation, so it is far from abnormal. 

Many women (and their partners) do not know how to stimulate their bodies to produce an ejaculation.

Unlike men, who learn early how to stimulate themselves to reach orgasm, and who naturally associate ejaculation with orgasm, many women never learn how to touch themselves in a way that stimulates ejaculation. Many women don’t know how to find their prostate, or how it is linked to sexual pleasure. For many, when it does “happen”, it is just a happy accident – and more often than not, it leads to embarrassment because the woman believes that she has just urinated. 

Those are the two biggest reasons for female-ejaculation “problems”. They don’t require medication or surgery – in fact, the biggest solution to most problems of delayed or no ejaculation in women is exploration and patience.

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