10 Hot Spots On A Woman
How do you make a woman orgasm? You probably think I am talking about clitoral and g-spot stimulation. However, there is so much more to pleasing a woman than just stimulating the clitoris and g-spot. Fortunately, for guys like you and me, a woman has erogenous zones all over her body. These areas produce intense sensation when stimulated and can be gently, moderately or intensely arousing. To discover all the different areas and see which ones you may have neglected when you try to pleasure a woman, read on.
(1) Hair and face
These 2 areas are my favorites. Besides dressing, a woman normally spends a lot of time on her face and hair. She will feel flattered and sexy if you give her face and hair as much attention as she does.
To gradually get her in the mood, you begin by touching her eyelids, eyebrows, temples, cheeks and hair which can be very intimate and arousing for your girl. During lovemaking, you stroke her hair or hold it firmly but gently. You can also make use of your eyelashes to caress her cheeks or neck.
(2) Ear lobes, behind the ear, mouth, lips and neck
You nibble, stroke and kiss these areas lightly with soft lips and a slightly open mouth. You let your breath linger in her neck and over her ear, but avoid heavy breathing into the ear. Being a naughty guy, I always press my lips against her ear. The next minute she will start giggling non-stop saying this is too ticklish and soon goose pimples will appear on her forearms. You should not do this at the early stage of foreplay. This will be more suitable when she is quite close to climax and relatively more relaxed than at the beginning. By then you only need to kiss her ears lightly which can give her erotic sensations. Another effective technique is to alternate light sucking of the earlobe with little nibbles.
For many women, French kissing is far more intimate than intercourse. You gently move your tongue in, exploring the inside of her lips, and then you move in a little more, paying attention to her motions and rhythms. When you kiss, be gentle at first, sucking the lower lip between your lips for a second before you let it go to give your partner a chance to come after your lips. Avoid pressing your lips too much onto her lips because squashing her lips can be suffocating and making it difficult for her to respond. You also need to pay attention to your oral hygiene because bad breath or smell of garlic can be a big turn-off.
You then move your lips down to her neck and focus your attention on the areas along the jaw line and above the collar bones. Kissing along her jaw and in the hollows just above the collar bones can make her whole body tingling with pleasure.
(3) Shoulders, hands, arms, armpits and fingers
The upper limbs respond well to gentle as well as firm stroke. They are good areas to start with during seduction and foreplay because stimulating them is pleasurable and gently arousing. You massage and stroke the fingertips and hands. You can also kiss and suck the fingers. When you move to her armpit, you apply firm touch to avoid tickling her. You can also try licking or stroking. Then you move on to massage her shoulders firmly but not too hard as to break her bones.
(4) The back
Massaging of the upper and lower back, varying between light and firm pressure and dry or wet touching can be stimulating and very enjoyable. You can use massage oil but be careful not to allow the oil to be in contact with the condom as the oil will damage it. For something different, you can use ice-cubes or feathers.
(5) Breasts and nipples
Being a highly sensitive area, the breasts respond well to touch and kiss. You draw circles around the nipples with your fingertip or tongue tip, brushing them with your palms, before you suck them like a baby.
(6) Abdomen and navel region
Circular massage or stroking of the abdominal area and kissing or licking the navel can be very pleasurable to a woman.
(7) The inner thighs and knees
Stroking, kissing and licking the inner thighs as well as the crease at the upper end of the inner thighs are highly arousing. The knees are often an overlooked area for pleasure but the real pleasure center is the back of the knees which can be quite ticklish for some women. But if she is relaxed, light stroking on the back of her knees can give her thrilling sensations.
The buttocks are a major erogenous zone but are less sensitive than breasts because they contain muscles and fat. You can use stronger stimulation such as grabbing, patting or smacking or very light touching by using your fingertips (be sure to trim your fingernails) to scratch or a feather to tickle her buttocks.
(9) Feet and toes
Giving her a foot massage can be both relaxing and sensuous. You can rub, kiss or suck the toes, a neglected erogenous zone full of nerve endings. To enhance her sensations you can tickle the soles lightly or apply firm pressure to the instep.
Needless to say, this is a major female hot spot. The most sensitive area is of course her clitoris which you can lick, stroke, rub and kiss it, offering your girl the most stimulating sexual experience. Being highly sensitive, you should avoid excessive clitoral stimulation at the start of foreplay. Instead you focus on stimulating the surrounding areas of the clitoris and only when she is quite close to climax that you offer her direct stimulation. Before having sex, you can get her to clamp her legs tightly together against her stomach and you enter her in this way which offers higher chances of your "little brother" rubbing against her clitoris, or you can get her to climb on top of you.
Of course, there is the elusive hot spot, which is her g-spot that is located inside and on the front wall of the vagina (towards her belly button). During foreplay you insert one or two lubricated and slightly curl fingers into her vagina with your palm facing upwards, slowing moving in until you feel an area of flesh that is rough. During lovemaking, you choose those sex positions that have her genitals higher than the other parts of her body to offer higher chances of hitting the g-spot. This can be done by resting her legs on your shoulders while you enter her or you penetrate her from behind.
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