How to please a woman in bed-use your tongue to give her the best orgasm ever

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Every man wants to please a woman in bed and satisfy her to mind-blowing orgasms.

In order to please a woman in bed, you need to understand her needs and what she wants during sex. Oral sex is physically better for a woman than fingering. Your fingers are hard, dry, and chafing. Your mouth, by contrast, is warm and moist. Much more importantly, oral sex is psychologically better.

The intimacy of your face in between her legs is a huge turn on for her. Compared to this, foreplay consisting only of probing fingers can seem platonic and impersonal. Every man wants to be the best that his girl has ever had. It's good to experiment with how firm and soft you make your tongue. Almost any woman will enjoy a good soft tongue lapping up and down from her pussy to the tip of her clit.

Spend some time investigating all of her folds, licking and sucking on every inch of her down there. Use your hands to spread her open, pointing your tongue darting around her pussy to different areas but always going back to the clit from time to time. Here are a few tips to help you.

1. Don't start in the bedroom - Want to increase the
chances she will orgasm? When was the last time you
gave her a suprise with a little drawing, letter or
flowers and sent them to her at work? Believe it or
not, creative and romantic gestures DO turn women
on because love and lovemaking are interconnected
in a woman’s brain. Do this and you can
bet-your-bottom-dollar you'll be doing more than
just eating dinner when she walks in the door! :)

2. Relax her - It’s hard for women to orgasm if
they are stressed. Give her a quick back massage.
Rub her shoulders, upper back and neck to melt away
the tension.

3. Ignore the vagina - Do you know that prolonged
foreplay actually increases the chances of her
coming? That's right. By kissing, caressing and
touching her LONGER, you’ll build the sexual
tension and often the anticipation will be very

4. Change your focus - If you focus all your attention
on the woman first, you'll make love to her much
more passionately. Think about it! If you've
finished first and decide to help her come, you
won't have the enthusiasm and passion that's needed
to keep her hot and turned on.

5. Tip to last longer - Of course the first step to
help her to reach orgasm is by not coming. The very best
way i have found to not come is: Penetrate as normal
and when you feel like you're about to come, simply
move your hips in a circular motion (like swaying a
hula hoop) and wait until the “little guys” subside
again. Now continue. :D

6. Don't use lubricants - Women have a natural
lubricant that fills the vagina when they're turned
on. By using a product substitute, you're only
fooling yourself. Without products, you’ll
instantly know if things are working; but with
them, you can never be sure.

7. Never too much clitoris - Did you know that once
you've stimulated the clitoris for some time, a
little thing called the clitoral hood will actually
come out and cover the clitoris to protect it from
further direct stimulation? (And no, I'm not making
this up!) The point is, once the clitoris is fully
stimulated, make sure you pleasure the G-spot next,
whether it be with your hand, tongue or penis.

8. Find and stimulate the G spot - The G-spot is a
zone that feels like the roof of your mouth and is
located about 2 inches inside the vagina on the
topside. (On the underside of her stomach.) There
are two basic ways you can pleasure the G. With
your fingers by doing a “come here” motion or with
a love position that helps hit the G-spot…

9. Use the best position - Not all love positions are
made equal. The best one for women is the reverse
missionary (woman on top). This is probably the
easiest position for a woman to climax because she
can control the friction to her clitoris and/or

10. Give her oral sex ­ The best way to help a
woman reach orgasm, even multiple orgasms, is by
going down on her . While at first I
didn’t believe it, countless studies have been done
to prove this fact. Oral sex is easier and much
more satisfying for women than intercourse is.

Try the ABC’s with your tongue, ask what she likes,
and mix it up with lots of different movements!
However be VERY careful! With over 6,000 nerve
endings in the clitoris, make sure you know everything
there is to know before poking your tongue around
there, otherwise it could be really painful and, even
worse, spoil the mood.

There you have it ­ 10 tips you can start using
right away to give women the most earth-shattering
experience of their lives.

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of
Lick by Lick, the complete guide to giving women
oral pleasure. Unfortunately, most men leave women
frustrated and disappointed after cunnilingus.
Learn to be one of the rare men who can satisfy her
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