When Should I Have Sex If I'm Trying To Conceive A Girl Baby? I'll Tell You

Posted: 19/08/2010 |Comments: 0 | Views: 797 |

I often offer pointers to help couples conceive the gender that they want. I'm commonly asked which time of the month is best for a girl or a boy conception. In the following article, I'll go over ovulation timing and choosing the right time of the month to have intercourse if you're trying to conceive a daughter or baby girl.

Getting A Handle On Your Fertility Window When You Want A Girl Baby: You probably already know this, so please bear with me. But, there is a several day period in your cycle when you're the most likely to conceive. Although most people think that this is mid way through your menstrual cycle, this varies greatly for each woman. And, it can also vary monthly. In other words, when you ovulate and are therefore most likely to conceive this month may be an entirely different day for next month. Some women ovulate earlier in the month and some later (I actually ovulate on day 20, which is late by some standards but it normal for me. ) And, this may flip flop from one cycle to the next.

This variability doesn't mean that it will be harder for you to get pregnant. Not at all. It just means that you'll have to be very accurate about knowing when ovulation takes place. With that said, a man's sperm can survive for a while in your vaginal tract. How long it survives depends upon several things, including whether you are acidic or alkaline and whether you are dealing with X (girl producing) or Y (male producing) sperm. The X live for much longer than the Y. This gives you an advantage because you aren't fighting the clock.

These variables work together to give you around 3 – 5 days to work with. Your first step is getting a good handle on your ovulation day. There are several ways that women will do this. They will use the calendar method, they monitor their basal temperate and their cervical mucus, or they rely upon ovulation predictors. Of the three, I prefer the ovulation predictors because they don't rely on you to make a guess or judgment call. If you can read the screen, then you can determine when you will or if you have ovulated.

Why You Should Have Sex Earlier In The Window If You Want A Daughter: I've already mentioned the fact that the female producing sperm live longer. So, you do have time on your side. You can afford to conceive 3 – 4 days before you ovulate. You want to steer clear of the day of ovulation because the boy sperm will not have died off yet and this is what you want.

Again, many women think about conception in terms of days before or after their period or menstrual cycle. This is not the best way to do it. Instead, think of it in terms of days before and after ovulation.

Another thing that you want to do if you are trying for a girl baby is to avoid orgasm. The fluids associated this will make your vagina more alkaline. You actually want for the opposite to happen. You want to be as acidic as you can because this is unfriendly to a boy conception. You can create this state through a special diet or by douches that raise your PH.

And, you can use intercourse positions that are more shallow. Deep penetration gives the Y's a short distance to travel and you don't want this either.

Conceive A Girl is a website I put together to offer step by step instructions, hints, tips, and resources for couples wishing to conceive a baby girl. You'll find resources for douche recipes and food lists, as well as ovulation predictors and PH test strips. Take a look if you like at http://conceive-a-girl-baby.com/

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