My Husband Won’T Have Sex With Me Anymore – Tips To Reignite Your Marriage

Posted: 02/02/2010 |Comments: 0 | Views: 1,595 |

My husband won’t have sex with me anymore is one of those phrases that you don’t ever want to hear yourself saying. Intimacy is an integral part of a marriage and when it disappears, it changes the entire dynamic of the relationship. The couple is, unfortunately, not as close as they once were and resentment and confusion can lead to the marriage slowly falling apart and then eventually crumbling. If you are fearful that this is the path your relationship with your husband is headed down, you need to act now before it’s too late. There are several things you can do to draw your husband closer to you again so you can have the fulfilling and connected marriage that you want.

The first thing you need to do when your husband doesn’t want to have sex is determine if his hesitation is related to another part of your relationship. Quite often when a couple quarrels over an issue it leaves them feeling distant and disconnected from each other. Your husband may not want to be close with you physically because there’s some underlying resentment or frustration over another matter. If you two have been arguing back and forth over something for days, weeks or months, you need to resolve that now. You two should sit down and talk out the problem and compromise where need be. If you don’t, the marriage may be at risk.

Many men are just as self conscious about the way they look as women are. Most of us are all too familiar with the feeling of gaining a few pounds and how that makes us feel undesirable. Some husbands feel exactly the same way. If you’ve noticed your husband talking about how he needs to eat healthier or work out more, this could very well be at the root of your intimacy issues. Work together with him on a mission to get both of you healthier. You can start grocery shopping together, cooking together and even exercising with each other. Not only will this help you both feel more attractive, but it will create a new, fun bond between you two which will naturally draw you closer again.

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